The Triad of Self: The Three Versions of Ourselves and When They Emerge

There’s a riveting concept in psychology and philosophy that posits we all house multiple versions of ourselves. Intriguingly, while these versions are rooted in the same being, they often manifest distinctly, playing unique roles in the grand theater of our lives. Let’s explore these three versions and uncover when they reveal their faces.

1. The Public Self: The Masquerade

This is the version that the world sees. Crafted meticulously with societal expectations, cultural norms, and the desire for social acceptance, the public self often wears the mask of what we believe others expect from us.

• When It’s Revealed: This self is predominantly showcased in social gatherings, at workplaces, or even on our curated social media profiles. It’s the “highlight reel,” the polished exterior we want the world to see and applaud.

2. The Private Self: The Unplugged Version

The private self is our more authentic version, but it’s still filtered. It emerges in the company of close friends, family, or when we’re alone. Here, the guard is slightly lowered, the mask loosens, revealing a truer reflection of our thoughts, feelings, and desires.